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necrosebud, I run into guys who fit that description all the time. They really are middle-managers in all kinds of industries, and they don't display the hard-assed attitudes of the LSE-D types.
If you know that that's the kind of guy you like, then you are ahead of 99% of most people.
Go get your car serviced or repaired at a dealership. Not an independent, since independents are less likely to attract Deltas. The service manager is likely to be an LSE-H. Either that, or an SLI-Te, and you can easily tell the difference. SLIs want to be "appreciated", and LSEs want to be "respected".
If in doubt and you think he might be SLI, tell the guy that you
appreciate his help and see if he goes pear-shaped inside from getting his fondest desire fulfilled from an IEE.
Or tell him that you have a lot of
respect for guys who do what he's doing, and see if the LSE starts glowing from getting what he most wants from an EII.
Another way to tell them apart is that SLIs have 4D Si and are generally graceful, like baseball players or golfers. LSEs have 4D Te and are more coarse-looking and "square".
You can also find both types in grocery stores or in hardware stores or in building supply stores or in Home Depot-type stores. Anywhere that a middle manager can be found giving people advice on what they should do.