The other day, my ESI-Se interior decorator and her LII GF showed up to return some tools they had borrowed to fix their house.
While they were here, I told them my "met cute" story about my first date with my ex-wife, and then I said that one of the reasons why my marriage had failed was because both my ex-wife and I were thinkers, and no one was taking care of the feeling part of the relationship. They, on the other hand, had the LII as a thinker and the ESI as a feeler.
To be honest, I was intentionally trying to be supportive of their union, because that's what friends do, even when they privately think that their friends are making a less-than-optimal decision. I'm not good at duplicity, though, and the ESI knows me through and through.
She absolutely knows that I wish I were younger and she were straight (because ....... of course), and she seems quietly amused by my wishes. Oh, well.
The ESI said that she thought I had the two of them reversed; that she was the Thinker and her LII GF was the Feeler. T
he LII immediately corrected her, like, within about 50 microseconds, and said to the ESI, "No, he's right. You are a Feeler. I'm a Thinker."
The ESI didn't look convinced. She looked a bit pissed, actually.