....to not derail your thread...
But this may have some relevance to an EII, whose dual is a Te-dom LSE.
As a Te-dom,I am usually pretty unemotional. Some people have typed me as an ESTj, but I'm clearly not one. I just realized this morning (I'm kind of slow) that because my narcissistic LSE mother tried to replace the person who I am with her own personality, that may be why I can both appear ESTj-like (leftover chameleon defense) and still have an automatic, visceral rejection of the LSE type.
I've also buried any feelings I have (1D Fi), and I try very hard to not get too close to people, because I imagine that if I get too close, I will fall into the sticky tar pits of their emotions and be unable to extricate myself, lose my potential for action, and suffocate. (This might be just me, or it might be true of many Te-doms, IDK.)
In my normal dealings with Fi-doms, I like to keep an emotional distance and just focus on business. I'm much more comfortable with people who demonstrate strong Te or Ti.
However...
I recently dated an LSI, who has Fi-Role. She kind of sneaked in under my Fi-dar defenses because I was just seeing Ti and Se, but once in, I found that she did have Fi and I found that just being with her was very comfortable. She also gave me my space and didn't try to cage me in, and that helped me feel simultaneously free and safe (from control) in the relationship.
I don't know if any of this will apply to your own dealings with LSE's. They tend to find one woman and lock on to her. If they appear to be straying, it is really a call to you for help with the question of "Do you still love me enough to object to me straying? I've been calling and you haven't been answering recently, and this is my last hope to get your attention". But I hope this will be helpful if you ever need it.