It's over.
It's over.
Last edited by Jinxi; 02-28-2012 at 01:27 AM.
I'm remembering when she said I was more IEE than she was. Wow. And no, I don't know what type she is. She's pretty spastic, though.
I don't know what type you are, either. The whole "FOCUS!" bit was pretty amusing, though.
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Illusionary partners looks funny to people watching. It said that in Renin download able book that was available here a while back, and I do think so in looking at real life interaction. his sister IEE and him ILI.
That dynamic "funny"-ness is like how this video shows.
The My leading function (which shows damn well in public interactions) is your Ignoring function. So it gives the other partner to not take each other serious kinda mocking each other. and on occasion,the conversation clicks through the Creative/HA so it's doesn't look like contrary, where in contrary relationship, each side will fight and show their own strongest point, sort of like what socionics.com description say on contrary relationship.
Cool video!
I could tell the both of you were trying to get a conversation going, though it wasn't quite connecting, and each person was kinda going at the other person
I suspected you of being ILI, her of being IEE, and the Illusionary type relationship pretty much seals the deal on that one for me
Nothing so far goes against ILI. My guess for your sister would have been IEE based solely on that video, even if you didn't mention it.
Last edited by Park; 05-06-2011 at 02:23 AM.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
i had to think about that. i guess...nah, not really.
i guess the difference is in that on video i can see the genuineness of your emotional output (or maybe genuineness isn't the right word for the sake of unbiasedness or something but more like its easier to feel you or sth). but in text i wonder more about your motivations, how much you're probing for reaction or putting emotion out for the purpose of stirring shit up.
I also say ILI for you, Jinxi. You are not emotive at all, you seem to be operating from a standpoint of logic, and you have a really grounded quality here, maybe more apparent because of the contrast to your sister, but still ... I noticed that in your other videos, too. Those things fit with ILI to me. (Seeing you as an Ni-ego introvert is something I'm taking for granted after previous threads.) I don't see you as a crazedrat clone, btw. Some points in common in your text-based online personas, but not enough to qualify as clones.
I think ENFp could work for your sister. And she would drive me bananas (désolée, soeur de Jinxi, c'ést juste la vérité). She doesn't come across as having IJ or EJ temperament, seems ethical and infantile.
LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
As defined by the Wikisocion:
" is generally associated with the ability to recognize and convey (i.e. make others experience) passions, moods, and emotional states, generate excitement, liveliness, and feelings, get emotionally involved in activities and emotionally involve others, recognize and describe emotional interaction between people and groups, and build a sense of community and emotional unity."
Your voice is a lot more calm and steady, and your style of speaking is a lot more direct, than what I get from IEIs in general... also, starting at 2:16, I can notice a lot of frustration out of you, and almost all of it's a type of thing (especially the "you're ridiculing French people part", and presented in the way you did - I've done that kinda thing too ), and much of it's about the answers being unproductive - all of which makes me go Gamma > Beta and ILI > IEI
After watching that video, I'm pretty strongly in the ILI camp for Jinxi. IEE seems like a good match for his sister.
Looking back, I'm pretty sure my reasons for initially leaning IEI for Jinxi were shitty ones. I've since grown increasingly partial to seeing him as ILI and the video pretty well solidifies that impression.
I know you think I'm IEI Jinxi, but for what it's worth I feel I relate to you like an identical.
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why IEE for his sister?
Personally I couldn't see an IEE responding that way to someone who genuinely wanted a serious discussion. And, not to say that all IEEs will find interest in socionics, but if there were a type that was more inclined to take an interest in socionics, I'd think it would be IEE. At the least, I would think they would take an interest in self-analysis or psychological-analysis. IEEs can be odd, but I couldn't see them blatantly ignoring someone who wants to discuss something for the sake of being odd.
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i'm not really familiar with any ILEs who seem as natural in their Fe as she does but i wouldn't rule it out and i can see where you guys are coming from with it.
otoh, if you guys are ruling out IEE on the basis of her being disrespectful (ie getting a kick out of pissing off her sibling) and not being interested in a psychological topic...those points aren't completely invalid, but hardly rule out IEE conclusively imo.
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I believe that I am ILI, and when I observe others whom I type ILI (especially those younger than me) I am often struck with an eery sense of familiarity. Observing ILI's sharing their thoughts or interacting with others, I'll periodically realize they've fallen into some sort of an interpersonal dynamic or way of handling/processing a situation that I have fallen into countless times. To watch this play out as an outside observer provokes a hard-to-describe sense of deja vu whereby I feel that I know the exact thoughts, feelings and impulses racing through the other's mind and am all too well aware of how the various ways of reacting to them are likeliest to play out. In such cases I find myself taking a vested interest in the other, hoping he/she'll not make the same mistakes I have regretted making in the past. As a consequence, I am especially proud of my identicals when they handle a situation well and especially disappointed with them when I feel they've handled a situation poorly.
I notice that I get this identical vibe fairly frequently around Jinxi (much more often than with Crazedrat, Siuntal, and other self typed IEI's around the forum). My impression is that K0rp felt much the same way when Jinxi arrived on the scene. Unfortunately, there was some sort of falling out and K0rp was especially perturbed by Jinxi's handling of the situation. I think Jinxi let down K0rpsey's expectations of him, and that this bothered K0rp much more so than did any of the insults Jinxi slung his way.
Jinxi, you're very likely ILI, with a possible chance of SLI. When you asked about the teacher's height, eye color, tone of voice, etc., it all seemed very Si-valuing to me. I actually think the Te is a bit more obvious than the Ni, although I see both.
And your sister is Ne-leading. Not sure between ILE or IEE, would have to see more. (If you can bribe her into doing another video with you again, haha! )
i wish this wasn't true because i'm not the bitch i used to be, but god damn it your sister gave me flashbacks of a girl i used to make fun of from 6th grade until maybe 11th. her personality just made me ridiculously angry and i couldn't handle it. what was interesting about her — and perhaps her most annoying quality — was that nothing that i or my friends did would phase her. we'd make hints that we don't like her, and she'd ignore us. we'd make it obvious, and she'd ignore us. it's like she didn't give a shit how much people disliked her, she'd still stick around us for some reason. she has the same sense of humor as your sister.
like i said, i'm not as much of a bitch as i used to be, but i think i'd relapse into a bully again if i had to spend more than 30 seconds with your sister. i sincerely don't mean this to make anyone feel bad, just being honest. hopefully it helps in some twisted intertype relation way.
jinx i think you're INXp. your sister is probably my opposing quadra, whichever that may be. getting crazy Ne leading vibes off her though
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
Your sister is the boring/annoying type. You're the stressed/sometimes a jerk type, or maybe the just-don't-care type.
Sorry, what I meant was by intertype relations I would say your sister is not in either of our quadras, and you might not be in my quadra, since you've come off too strong on the emotions. But based on that one video, I would suggest that you're closer to my quadra than your sister is. Translate that in to types, I don't really know what your types are, but I'd like to help figure it out.
What a cute video! You guys seem to have a good relationship. I want to see you like on one of those cute family sitcoms, it seems appropriate.
I can understand your desire to focus the discussion, but I think you're putting too much of the pressure/focus on her because you personally are too deflated to handle/initiate it, or you are the type of person who deals with things by pushing the focus onto other people. And she's reacting by tuning you out a bit, but in a way she's still accommodating you by accepting being focused on. It might be an ExFp way of dealing with things, I don't know. I just perceive that in a way she doesn't care, but in a way she's actually affected by the way you are talking to her and she's trying not to care and mostly succeeding (at least on the outside). And yet she's still protecting you in a way. I think with the Delta NFs I have known, yeah their Ne is just wacky, but sometimes they actually have an (strong?) opinion on the subject and something against their ethical values holds them back from conversing in a more direct manner. It may be for a multitude of reasons. It may be to protect against getting hurt, like you mentioned.
From what I perceive she is being pretty patient with you and tuning out the parts she doesn't like so she can have a workably pleasant relationship with you. Maybe she sees your soul or believes in the part of you that just acts like Scrooge. I hope I'm not projecting here. Try to take this with a grain of salt. But in general I'm a little uncomfortable with her level of tolerance. I am itching to tell her to tell you to just fuck off already. I would not be a happy camper if someone spoke to me the way you speak to her.
If I'm a-NT, then theres nothing that should annoy me about IEE or ESE. IOW, her emotions about things seem kind of over the top for me, and if I were alpha then that wouldn't annoy me. But if I'm ILI,also equally likely, then IEE or ESE might be a rather good typing for her/makes sense from my POV. I don't currently understand why an IEE would be that silly though, unless that's just pure . So there's my 2 cents.