As an ILE, I would say that EII's I know
terrify me. I'll be chatting lightly about something, being personable or friendly, and I can't shake the feeling that
it makes no difference what I say or do, that they have an opinion of me that I can't impact. It feels incredibly disarming, and makes me feel irreparably...broken. The worst part is, they are so nice about all of it- I worry primarily about what they
aren't telling me.
Something about
leading makes me feel like there's something written on my forehead that only they can see, but at least my super-ego and conflictors give me something to rebel against lol. That said, I respect these EII's in my life a lot, but their influence can make me hyper-aware of vulnerabilities.
Also, I find their use of
interesting. If I'm busy being self-conscious of how I'm being perceived with them present, they get to have all the fun making Ne-lite suggestions to the group.