Quote Originally Posted by FDG
You've already been in a marriage, so your experiences on the matter are likely more cemented. Still, sometimes fresh water is better than cement. In any case, only you know your career situation. If it is a temporary matter, then it's always plausible to wait; especially if you have already told yourself you're going to get back to the best part of life (fun) when that ends. But make sure you don't get addicted to self-control - that's all I'm saying - I have been done there for short periods of my life and it rendered relationships more difficult afterwards (the slower you drive, the harder it is to drive faster, basically).

She's an ISFj. You can do everything with them, whatever their occupation is, even nun. At least, this has been my experience. Provided that they like you, of course.
Marriage, sex, sure. I was thinking more about the religious aspect of it all. I mean, I don't doubt that an ISFj priest or nun could under certain conditions have sex with someone. I'm more thinking about whether I want to be a person who regularly has sex with a priest or a nun. It's a matter of respect to me. And even if a nun asked me to have sex with her I feel I'd likely feel awfully self-concious about it. Mixed feelings.

I think the waiting is a good idea. It'll give both of us a moment to get more of an idea what we really want. Slow rolling it.

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I hear you about the addiction with self control. Been there, done that. Bad times.

The fun times. I feel they're somewhere over the horizon. Not actively aiming for them but I know they're there.

Thanks again.